Lesson 15 by Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, Colorado

It just drives Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, Colorado crazy to see people that are supposed to be busy doing something, but they’re hiding out.

What a shame.  What an incredible limiter of life.

Today, I have a pact with myself.  If I see a task that has to be done, I do it then, schedule it, or delegate it and make sure I follow up with the delegate.

Life has a way of loading more stuff on you as your responsibilities grow, so it’s important now to become time wise.

Next month, or next year, when your skill at using time effectively is evaluated… or when you need to get something done fast, you’ll have developed your ability-and you’ll succeed.  You’ll be rewarded.

Isn’t it amazing how, after a week or a month in preparation of a deadline, you’re still working on it minutes before it’s due?  Why is that?

Poor planning… “Killing” time, hiding out.

If something you have planned is going to take a Herculean effort and may take a team, put the time into planning and delegating.

Don’t you feel like a dog when you’re hiding from a task?
I know Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, Colorado did.

Want to feel like you deserve an award?

Want to feel like a hero?

Want to be admired by everyone?

Then watch yourself and how you use your time.  If you catch yourself sitting around watching TV, shooting the bull or reading unimportant magazines or newspaper articles, stop immediately and do something that will make one of your ambitions come true.

That is what all effective people do.

You’ll enjoy yourself once you get started…

That’s the toughest part.

A year from now, you’ll be a year older.  Will you be any wiser?  What are you here for exactly anyhow?  What’s your purpose?  If you don’t know, go to amazon.com, BN or borders.com and search for a book about developing a mission.  Stephen Covey is a great person to read.

What if you’re 80 years old?  A mission can add a bunch of enjoyable years to your life.  Why are you sticking around?
Be productive.

The man across the street from us is 84 years old and his lawn looks like Disney World.  It’s his passion.

Get a degree.  You’ve got the time.  Be honest with yourself.

Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, Colorado learned an interesting technique a long time ago…

I talk to myself like I’m an advisor… to myself.

I tell me what to do, given the facts and situation.  This way I can be less of a wimp when it comes to making tough choices with my time.  Instead of immediately thinking I can’t do a particular thing, I hear that voice that sounds like me but is much tougher than a person would normally be with themselves.  Kind of like a drill sergeant in your own head.

All I can tell you is that it works.  I rarely hear “I don’t know…” for long before the sergeant comes in with, “It’ll only take a minute.  Get it done and you won’t have to worry about it later.”  It always makes sense, so I do it just to shut me up!!

No matter what you may believe, you were born with tremendous ability.  Use your own brain.  It can help you do so many things that you can’t imagine.  You’re NOT weak.
You’re strong.

You’re NOT stupid.  In many areas, you’ve got genius capabilities.

Pull it out of you.

You are worth it.

Today’s Empowering Beliefs To
Help Control Your Thoughts

If you want to change your life fast, even though it might seem like it’s slow, then take the statements below, put them on index cards and read them 3 times/day. Morning, noon and just before you close your eyes at night.

They’ll seep into your consciousness. And since you’ll be saying them so often, you’ll soon begin to believe them.
That’s how most beliefs start. Spaced repetition of thought.
Your attitudes will then positively change your emotions, and you’ll be compelled to do more… And you’ll love it.

— Today I’m performing at my best
— I love staying busy
— When I see a new task, I do it, schedule it or delegate
it
— My time is valuable and I treat it that way

Lesson 14 by Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, Colorado

Today’s your day.

Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, Colorado is convinced of it.  It’s your day.  And today you’re going to get up all your courage and just do what you’ve been aching to do.

Just before you begin taking the first actions in attacking your challenge, you might be shaking like a leaf.
I don’t know.

But it’s at that moment, when you’re feeling the most frightened that you’ll be making your biggest strides.
Because today, you’re not going to back down.  You’re going to take a deep breath and go forward.

Are you guaranteed success?  Will you reach your goal for sure?  Will you absolutely get the outcome you’re hoping for?

Not a chance…

But you’ll prove to yourself and everyone that thinks that sometimes you’re a dead person who just hasn’t been buried yet, that you’re alive and starting to kick.

People who know Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, Colorado well can tell you that I have failed at thnings.  But every time I get thrown for a loop, I immediately jump up.  I ask myself what I should learn from it.  And if I have to, I start completely over.

So many years after my “awakening,” I’m still growing as fast as I ever have.

It’s true…

In your own life, when you make a mistake or get laughed at, if your immediate response is to put your head down and start crying, you won’t be able to see the next opportunity that’s passing right in front of you, riding in the wake of your agony.

Get up!

Don’t you dare give up.  Not while I’m breathing will you ever again put your tail between your legs and turn away from what might be your greatest accomplishments.  Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, Colorado won’t accept that from you.

Not from you.  You’re too good.

Is that an odd way to describe your failure and humiliation?

Well, whenever you’ve succeeded at getting your way at just about anything, it’s rarely been on the first try.
Right?  It’s usually been after being told ‘No’ a few times, or screwing something up a bunch of times before finally getting it right.

Well, isn’t that true?

Take that template for success and place it over everything you want to do.  Everything.

When you think about some goal that seems quite a stretch for you, and the thought comes in that says, “I couldn’t do that,” stop and place your previous success template over it.  Know that no matter how big it is, if you just “remember” that, while it might be difficult, you CAN do it.  And you’re already half way there.

Do this all day today.  “I can do it” needs to be your mantra.

If you do, I promise you that your muscles will be stretched.  Your mind will be stretched.  And those goals that “looked” impossible will suddenly seem do-able.

It’ll be like you’ve been given a new pair of eyes.

Don’t just sit there…

Get up.  Today’s not over.

It’s your day.  Tomorrow may never come.  Today is your whole life.  Do what you fear today.  You may never have another chance.  Take your shot.

Oh heck.  Take 20 shots.

And take them all today.

Today’s Empowering Beliefs To
Help Control Your Thoughts

If you want to change your life fast, even though it might seem like it’s slow, then take the statements below, put them on index cards and read them 3 times/day. Morning, noon and just before you close your eyes at night.

They’ll seep into your consciousness. And since you’ll be saying them so often, you’ll soon begin to believe them.
That’s how most beliefs start. Spaced repetition of thought.
Your attitudes will then positively change your emotions, and you’ll be compelled to do more… And you’ll love it.

— I’m living this day as if it is my last
— I’m really living today and it feels good
— Today is my day
— I appreciate my challenges, for they will make me great

Lesson 13 by Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, Colorado

We are all given different gifts and have different interests.  If you are trying to start a business, for example, and you’re doing it only because you want to make a lot of money, you’ll probably fail.  If you answer a biz- op ad in a magazine and the one you choose is mostly because of a low investment, you’ll probably fail again.

The only way you’ll ever feel great inside your own skin and become successful at anything, especially in business, is if you decide to become of service to others.  Period.  Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, Colorado strongly believes this.

Watch others closely.  You’ll find, as I have, that one of the biggest problems we humans have with one another is the lack of a desire to help out, to give a hand to someone who needs it.  People who never jump in to help clean up or offer their help are universally despised.

Recently, I saw a movie I hadn’t seen in years that is the epitome of what life’s all about.  The movie is ‘Ground Hog Day.’  Bill Murray plays an egotistical, selfish weatherman who travels to Western Pennsylvania every February 2nd to see if “Punxsutawney Phil” will see his shadow or not.

He and his crew have to stay overnight due to a snowstorm.
And in a seemingly cruel twist of fate, he wakes up the next day to find it’s February 2nd… again.  This happens day after day after day.  He’s in groundhog hell imprisoned to relive the same day forever.

After a while he kills himself… only to be awakened at the same time each morning by his alarm clock playing Sonny & Cher.  He kills himself again.  Same result.

Everyone else is living as if it’s Groundhog Day for the first time.  He’s the only one reliving it.  The same people greet him at the same moment in the same place.  The only difference is how he reacts.

He gets to see how he changes the outcome of the day for himself and everyone else…over and over.

Soon, he changes his tune and starts helping each person where they have a challenge; saves a kid from a fall, performs a Heimlich, fixes a flat tire, etc.  He finds that he retains his skills from the “previous” day.  So he learns about everyone’s likes and dislikes, learns how to play piano, make ice sculptures and learns about the object of his affection.

Through trial and error, he works to make each “new day” a masterpiece.  Each day, as it progresses, he learns that the way he viewed life was wrong… that he could have a great life if he just helped others.

People loved him… every day.

As the “days” went by, he learned about life.  No lesson did he miss.  All it took was awareness on his part.

Remember, at first it seemed like hell to him.  Then as he grew in skill and in character, the woman he adored loved him back… even though she couldn’t stand him before.

The first time Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, Colorado saw this movie, I missed the moral.  I was too busy being entertained.  It IS funny.

But just like in “real” life, as you’re laughing and crying and living, there are lessons.  If you don’t notice them, you’re doomed to never learn and will repeat the same mistakes… over and over.

Any problem you have has a solution.  You just need to find it.

But you must look for it.

To begin, start taking an interest in other people instead of just yourself.  Help out everywhere you can.

You will be amazed.

As if by magic you’ll learn faster, your relationships will improve, your job will be more fun, money will probably cease to be a problem… in short everything will be better for you.

Tomorrow your clock will wake you at the same time as yesterday.

Make that day and every day a masterpiece…  Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, Colorado certainly will.

And be patient.  Live just today.  Tomorrow will come…
tomorrow.  Learn what you must to prepare for tomorrow.

You’ll get what you want.  But you must first become what you need to become in order to get it.  Stop with the excuses.

Start today.

Today’s Empowering Beliefs To
Help Control Your Thoughts

If you want to change your life fast, even though it might seem like it’s slow, then take the statements below, put them on index cards and read them 3 times/day. Morning, noon and just before you close your eyes at night.

They’ll seep into your consciousness. And since you’ll be saying them so often, you’ll soon begin to believe them.
That’s how most beliefs start. Spaced repetition of thought.
Your attitudes will then positively change your emotions, and you’ll be compelled to do more… And you’ll love it.

— I’m using today to learn, grow and make my life better
— When I help other people they love me
— I’m growing in skill and ability today
— I let go of petty differences to focus on important
lessons
— My eyes are open to the lessons in life
— I’m making today a masterpiece

Lesson 12 by Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, Colorado

Most people are miserable, generally.

And yes, it’s horrible, but also avoidable.

I know… Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, CO  was one of the biggest perpetrators of stinkin’ thinkin’ you’ve ever met.  But that simple, yet profound, shift, when it comes over you – actually when you make it your objective to change it – just puts a different shading on how you see nearly every hour of your life…

Now, I’m NOT an advocate of ignoring huge challenges raining down on you like hail.  Look ’em straight on, and be honest with yourself.  Everything you experience has a value to you, whether you believe it or not.

Problems are always opportunities.  They can make you stronger.  But if you don’t train your brain to view them as opportunities, then they make you weaker.  And if you don’t watch out, you can drop down to a level where everything makes you frightened and nervous.

Take heart.  Your competitors/opponents rarely make it through all their own problems.  So you are blessed every day with many chances to get further ahead.  If you live in a setting where you don’t think you compete, you’re wrong…

You and Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, CO  do compete… if not with someone else, then with yourself to keep your moods regulated so that you can perform and respond to situations properly.  You have forces that are in your daily environment constantly working on ruining your moods and wrecking your performance and your motivation.  The daily news, other people… if you’re an established debater, life’s a constant battle waiting to happen.

Your moods are primarily the result of what you focus on.

When Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, CO  was in situations I would chant out loud, “I now command my subconscious mind to give me the strength, the humor, the brevity, the love, the persuasiveness… whatever it takes to get (name) to like me and to see my value.!”

Because when Alexander James Goldsmith of Aspen, CO  walked in the door after chanting my mantra for 15 minutes, every fiber of my being was focused on helping this other person.  No other thoughts entered my mind. I would not allow them to deter my focus.  When you’re in front of someone who seems to be completely tuned into what you need and want, you almost instantly like him or her…

And we are persuaded easier by people we like.

Big lesson coming up…

Put that same kind of focus on looking for things to lighten your mental load, to make you smile, to help you appreciate the little things that other people do (not just for you).  If you do, you’ll feel awesome.  I promise.

It’s impossible to fail at this.

Keep today’s empowering question in your mind all day.
You’ll get answers.  And you’ll feel cleansed.  Lighter.
Loved.

Guaranteed.

TODAY’S EMPOWERING BELIEFS TO
HELP CONTROL YOUR THOUGHTS

If you want to change your life fast, even though it might seem like it’s slow, then take the statements below, put them on index cards and read them 3 times/day. Morning, noon and just before you close your eyes at night.

They’ll seep into your consciousness. And since you’ll be saying them so often, you’ll soon begin to believe them.
That’s how most beliefs start. Spaced repetition of thought.
Your attitudes will then positively change your emotions, and you’ll be compelled to do more… And you’ll love it.

— Today I’m focusing on what’s good
— I transcend problems
— I am solution oriented now
— I’m helping other people feel good about themselves today
— I allow myself to feel unbounded joy now